I have tried really, really hard not to engage with you to maintain civility on the site, and I hope the mods don’t lock this thread because of this, but now I need to be crystal clear about a few things because you brought it up here. You have no reason to be scared; I did not stumble into your personal thread, you strolled into mine. It was not a personal disagreement, and you are not the victim. Afterwards, I stopped engaging with you, but you continued to reply to me directly each week as if nothing had happened… that’s just not how I roll.
I believe every blessed breath is an opportunity from Spirit: the opportunity to be happy, sad, nice, nasty, supportive, damaging… we choose what and who we want to be, outside of mental health issues. You chose to be harsh, unnecessarily so - I had not tagged or mentioned you in anyway in the post, so you didn’t even need to respond, you chose to say what you said. Then, when you realised you’d hit a nerve - which is exactly what you said - you didn’t apologise, you hit it again with different words. That’s like punching someone in the stomach, saying you punched them in the stomach, then punching them in the face… who does that? Then, when I called you out about it, you tried to flip the script and act like you were the victim and I was the one with the problem - not cool. I reacted emotionally to your words, but at no point was I nasty to you, even when I wanted to be - that was my choice. Even when my thread was locked, and I wanted to hurl every name I could think of in your direction, I chose not to.
Everyone is entitled to their thoughts, but I don’t know why you would actually say what you said. Did it make you feel better to try and make me feel bad/insignificant? Cause there’s a name for people who do that, they’re called bullies, and I’ll tell you the same thing I’ve told every bully I’ve met; have a dialogue with your self, redirect your anger where it belongs, and deal with it… do not bring it to me.
I do owe you thanks though, for helping me to relearn the most fundamental lesson of life; not everyone is authentic, and not everyone is nice, even here in spells8. So thank you for rebuilding my walls, and I will soon return to my thread and finish it, because it is my space and I can have my own space just like everyone else on this site. I will not allow what happened to hinder me anymore. You have made no attempts whatsoever publicly or privately to reconcile, which tells me everything I need to know; to do so now would be insincere, so you do you and I’ll do me.
Duuuuuuuude, that made me laugh on the outside and cry on the inside at the same time! 
A perfect example of why out of all the people here, you can’t act like your brain isn’t as wonderfully weird as mine!
x Blessed Be x
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:I’d choose any of the South American countries. They’re so rich with culture, history, archaeology.
I’ll try to make it as entertaining as 
I could look at the drum roll duck all day.
