Merry meet @MyLyn I’m Phoenix from Alabama and it’s very nice to meet you. I do not have much experience with dealing with entities as I’m still a young witch myself however I have done TONS of research on warding and protecting my home because I, too, am an empath. My husband is gifted in the fact that he can see entities but I can only feel their energy and such. It’s helpful that my husband can see them because it helps me to visualize them should I ever NEED to take action against them. Luckily it hasn’t come to that yet BUT I did have a pretty weird situation occur last night that I’m unsure of exactly what was happening so I’m waiting to see if it may have been an isolated occurrence from a passer by or if something has arrived that I may need to look into. My husband was not home last night for me to have him look into it or I’d already have a jump on it.
There are plenty of good cleansing bath rituals you could do but you mentioned that he would be reluctant due to his beliefs (I went through that with my husband when I first got started too. Luckily mine cooperated with me when I phrased it in a way that said it would make me feel more comfortable if he would just go along with the bath idea because even if he didn’t agree with the magical aspect it’s still just a bath lol) but if he is reluctant and not approving of your craft for any reason I feel as though that is your biggest issue even possibly bigger than the entity itself. You really shouldn’t cast anything concerning another person without their consent and given the entity is likely attached to him without his consent I worry that there may not be too many options to use. Maybe if he won’t agree to do the cleansing bath perhaps maybe kitchen magic? Cook one of his favorite meals and include herbs that have properties for cleansing/protection and if you decide not to get his consent and try anyway you could simply say you were trying something different with it if anything affected the taste and was mentioned. I don’t know for sure that kitchen magic would work in this situation but it seems like it would be worth a shot (should anyone have an opinion on this I’d love it if you shared because it because I’m a curious little witch and it’ll save me from researching the topic later on)
As far as warding and protection for your home though…
You could hang a piece of aloe vera above the main entry of your home as aloe vera has protective properties in addition to it’s many other wonderful uses (you can learn about it on the spells8 course on aloe however at the moment I can’t seem to find a link to share in reference to it🤦🏼♀️ pregnancy brain)
Here are a few others I have found and use in combination with each other that seem to be working (when it comes to protection I feel very strongly about never having enough so I worried about whether some of these would be enough to help or even if they would legitimately work at all because I found them via Pinterest and couldn’t know if they were tried and true methods so I combined a few just to be on the safe side )
4 corners protection
Witch burrs aka sweet gum balls
Additionally should you be desperate enough to go the route of not having consent perhaps you could buy him some sort of gift or use something he already carries with him anyway and after cleansing with whatever method you may use create a protection amulet for him to carry. I would also probably do the same for my children if it were me (my daughter has one I make her carry on her always and I made it with a ring that I gave her so she’d be more likely to wear it always) I’m not sure if you are really supposed to have consent from children but since they are YOUR children I assume it would be fine. I didn’t ask my daughter but she’s mine and I decided for her lol
Protection amulet spell
I even made a few jar spell types of amulets that I gift my friends and family members should I feel the need. However I modified a spell that I found when I first got started (that was 6 months or so ago and I have no idea where I found it as I have many different places I get my information so I can’t reference the one I used as the base of my spell) but it has cumin, cayenne pepper, chilli powder, black salt, Angelica root, eggshell powder and a hematite chip in it and then I wrote a protection sigil on my spell paper at the top. Make sure to cleanse your jar with sage smoke before you put anything in it and I always place my salt in it first to protect the jar from any negative energy that may try to get in it after I cleanse it (if I didn’t happen to have space to cast my circle before hand) Light a white candle beside the jar that holds your herbs (I lit mine before placing my herbs in the jar to be thorough) I said the spell 3 times and closed it with “so mote it be” and rolled it up and placed it inside my jar. I let the candle burn next to the jar until I felt that the spell was done and snuffed it out as I reuse my candles when I am running low then sealed the jar with the wax. Then I hand painted the same protection sigil I used on my spell scroll on glass (you could also carve it in the wax on top of the jar if you prefer but I only suggest that if you didn’t use a jar with a cork lid) the picture below is what it looked like. I used various size jars and I used some that had attachments for jewelry or key rings and some that didn’t to carry in purses cars or pockets even.
Sorry I don’t have more ideas on removing said entity but that’s not something I’ve begun working on. I hope you are able to find something that helps and I will add you to my prayers and light a candle for you as well. Blessed be.