# Spell suggestions... All hands on deck please?

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**Created:** [August 26, 2021, 8:02pm UTC](https://forum.spells8.com/t/spell-suggestions-all-hands-on-deck-please/13379 "2021-08-26T20:02:47Z")\
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**Author:** ![SilverBear](https://spells8.b-cdn.net/user_avatar/forum.spells8.com/silverbear/32/54810_2.png) [@SilverBear](https://forum.spells8.com/u/SilverBear)\
**Post date:** [August 26, 2021, 8:27pm UTC](https://forum.spells8.com/t/spell-suggestions-all-hands-on-deck-please/13379/2 "2021-08-26T20:27:50Z")

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I am so sorry to hear you are struggling. I feel your pain. _hug_

It sounds so cliché but time does heal. Give yourself time to go through the emotions.

You’ll be sad, you’ll be angry, you’ll feel rage, pain, and everything in between.

Allow them to happen. Do so without judgement. Just acknowledge and know it’s OK to not be OK.  
It’s OK to feel the feelings.

It could take several cord cuttings - don’t rely on just one if the ties are deep. I recommend doing them for at least a week. Everyday for 1 week. At least.

Always followed by a white light protection visualization.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/4R3urMcYWyI/maxresdefault.jpg "Cut the Cords") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4R3urMcYWyI)

Try some guided meditations -

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/2o409snO6dg/maxresdefault.jpg "The Nest of Pain") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2o409snO6dg)

Try some self love/self compassion -

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/ZQvt7ZU2vJU/maxresdefault.jpg "Self Compassion Break") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQvt7ZU2vJU)

Carry crystals that help with grief. YES, this is a form of grieving.

Apache Tears, Obsidian, Aquamarine, Calcite, Agate, Lapis Lazuli, Malachite, Angelite, Rhodochrosite, and Tourmaline all excellent for grief.

Use elemental water - No rain? Use your shower.

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/YsklEMYoq7Q/maxresdefault.jpg "Cleansing Rain Ritual") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YsklEMYoq7Q)

Peace sigil

[![](https://img.youtube.com/vi/zbR2TUQLmPU/maxresdefault.jpg "Protection & Peace Within") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbR2TUQLmPU)

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