Hello @alisha3,
Welcome to the forum! I’m Bry, an Eclectic Witch and one of the moderators. Just popping in to say hi and that it’s nice to meet you. I hope you’ve been finding everything you’ve been looking for!
Those are wonderful goals! And as a happy coincidence, if you didn’t already come across it, @Amethyst just posted a really nice spell that you might be interested in. It is here: Spell to Increase Your Sense of Self-Love and Self-Worth 
The coven community is blessed to have you here! Make yourself at home, Alisha - blessed be 