What you need:
Any oil is fine but I made my own with:
*Mint for peace
*Cloves for jealousy/home protection
*Basil for courage
*Eucalyptus for release anger/overcoming jealousy
*Black obsidian for added protection
*Add ingredients together, shake it up afterwards
Salt (I used black salt, for added protection)
Extra crystals for protective healing:
Sunstone to brighten things up (adds to the Summer Solstice, too lol)
Herbs added to candle:
*roses for love
*chamomile for calm
*lavender for antianxiety/calm
What to do:
Cleanse yourself and your space.
Ground and center yourself. (I find that tapping your thymus (just under the collarbone but in middle of your chest) helps me get grounded)
Annoint the candle going up towards the top, with the blended oil, to release the negative energies.
Dress the candle with the herbs.
Light the candle
The chant I used was…
Heal my ways
Take me a newer way.
Harm no one, so mote it be”
As the candle is burning:
*you can meditate, envisioning the tension/problem burning away into the Universe
Or (what I did) you can close your eyes and on the inhales, picture a healing, golden light entering through you crown chakra. On exhales, picture the tension leaving out through your root chakra.