The earth will turn and memories change,
Day by day, over time. All things become…less.
Reach deep within and draw the thought from your mind.
Look at it, taste it, and listen to its message.
Hold it in your hand. Is it grief, anger, or abuse?
The choice to remember or forget is yours to command.
Once you decide, gather yourself and your determination.
Say the words to dismiss that which troubles you.
“No more to remember, let sorrow fade.”
Gather each splinter and speck to your hand, and raise it to the sky.
Then blow away hurtful or harmful memories into the setting sun.
May it carry away your pain, and disperse it into the Cosmo.
Peace will be yours…
As it is spoken, So will it be.
Garnet, April 27. 2024
I was thinking about you this morning and missing your writing… And here you are with the most perfect spell for me! I have been working on forgiving my mother for most of my life and trying to complete that now once and for all! I have her ashes which feel so negative and with this… I will heal and let all that pain go!
I can’t thank you enough! You are amazing! Thank you, lovely and wise lady!
With love always,
Marsha
P.S. May you be blessed and healed in whatever way you need!
I’ve been looking for a SPELL with this exact meaning!
THANK YOU sooo much for posting this wonderful SPELL!
I will be using this one definitely tonight!
Sweet Marsha,
We often think our parents ruined our lives, and sometimes they did. But most parents do the best that they can.
I hated doing shadow work, but it allowed me to see who I really was and helped me forgive her (my mom). The best thing about forgiving her was that I was able to forgive myself for guilt that I didn’t even know I was carrying.
Cleanse and consecrate her urn, and cast off any negativity you perceive.
Dispose of her ashes as you believe is right (there really is no right or wrong way, just your
way.)
That’s when you take a cleansing shower or bath and let go of your anger, resentment, or hatred. It’s self-defeating child. Let it go, you’re better and stronger than this.
Sending you virtual hugs
xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Garnet.
Garnet that is such great advice I too lite a candle start counter clockwise and use my left hand cleansing my space banishing all the profane then I remember to let it all go.Then I take the right hand making a circle to the right then I bring in love and protection and I am whole again.
But washing with the sage is like a bath but a spiritual bath you got it and I am glad that you finally forgave yourself. I felt the same way when my dad and mom passed so upset with myself.
Jeannie
Hi Jeannie1
I’m too old and tired for most of the pomp and circumstance
anymore so I do simple spells with great intent and concentration.
I love that you keep the old ways though.
Love you
garnet
I can only imagine the reason for the spell - I can feel some sort of heartbreak or pain. It’s good to hear from you! 
about you this morning and missing your writing… And here you are with the most perfect spell for me! I have been working on forgiving my mother for most of my life and trying to complete that now once and for all! I have her ashes which feel so negative and with this… I will heal and let all that pain go!
You are amazing! Thank you, lovely and wise lady!
Make yourself comfortable, explore, and feel free to ask questions! 
always,