. Thank you. I like who you are too!
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@Garnet I love this quote, itās so true! You know, me and my partner were talking just the other day about how when anyone is unkind or rude or nasty, if you give it a couple of weeks, maybe sometimes months, every time something bad ends up happening to that person - EVERY TIME. No spell necessary.
Now, thats not to say that in my life I had never cast a ābadā spell. I have once, when I was around 9, and never again. I have done defensive spells, return to sender, karmic justice etc. But as I get older I realise more and more, the universe will take care of the negative people. Is that because my Goddess has my back or because negative people attract negativity? 
Hopefully a mixture of both, but I definitely believe negativity attracts negativity.
The older I get, the more I realise these people donāt have the āfairy taleā lifestyle they project on social media and to the outside world at large. Itās fake. Itās all b*llshit. I donāt need to sit here and wonder why the ābad guyā has a seemingly perfect life and how unfair it is, because he doesnāt have the perfect lifeā¦ heās in debt or his relationship is bombing, he hates his job, he suffers from depression, his kid wont speak to him etc etc etc, thereās always something.
Iām growing, Iām trying, sometimes I still get super mad and have a rage or rant to let off steam, but after alls said and done, I always come back to the realisation that my Goddess or the Universe will balance it out.
Iām not a saint, my go to when someone I care about has been hurt is to go for the attackers jugular. But, like I said, Iām growingā¦ learningā¦ maturing, hopefully! 
having a wonderful, kind and supportive partner for the first time in my life helps astronomically.
So now, I pretty much just go with the flow and concentrate on my circle. I protect myself and those I love, I stay away from negativity and every now and then Iāll do a return to sender or karmic justice spell. I keep positive and try and attract positivity into my life as much as possible. 
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I love this so much, and Iāve noticed the same. What goes around comes around, you reap what you sow etc. While I donāt want to think of myself as someone who takes joy in someoneās miseryā¦ in that case I may allow myself just that 
Who knows, maybe they could learn their lesson without it, but it just might speed them on their way.
I like to believe both too 
Oh dear, yesā¦ āNever compare your inside to someoneās outsideā is something Iāve learned to live by too.
If he has, well, good for him as long as he stays out of mineā¦ I donāt really see any reason to follow anyone I donāt like and give them my energy.
So mote it be 
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Honey, thatās called karma or poetic justice by muggles! When someone is rude or unkind, think of their life and what pain brought them to that point.
Think of a pressure cooker, anger can be like a steam gauge, as the steam is released,so is the pressure. be good to each other.
Iāve always believed āwhat goes around, comes aroundā.
Garnet
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@Garnet -ohhh-i have shivers! One of the cards I have this month is the Wheel and the meditation that came up for it was : āthe hands of time sweep our well worn past awayā from Around the Tarot in 78 days by Marcus Katz and Tali Goodwin.
It made me think of your comment about future being clean and clear. Hope, that is what I feel-hope. 
Mind you there is lots of work for me to do given the position of the card but I know I can do it.
Donāt know why but I am doing a bit of a happy danceā¦weāll see how I feel at the end of this month 
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Ms. Phoenixā¦HOPE SPRINGS ETERNAL!
Stay safe, be you and you will succeed.
Garnet
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