I am new… This is my first time doing freezer spell… I have a few names of some co workers, but I am also not sure of all who was included. Lately it just seems like theres so much going on at my job that is being aimed at me and I have been the hot topic. Several people have went to my boss with complaints or “concerns” as my boss put it, but not once came to me. After clearing the air with my boss and clarifying the the lies, misunderstandings, etc., I realized this is a personal attack. I can maybe think of one person who I have exchanged words with, but I do not know who the several people are my boss mentioned. Sorry for rambling but my questions are..
Do I need to put the names on separate sheets of paper?
If I do not have all the names, is there a way for me to go about this? At this point, I want them all to go in the freezer lol , I just want to be left alone. I have never had any issues at this job in the almost 4 yrs I have been there. I simply don’t understand where all the gossip and cattiness is coming from, but I prefer a straight shooter. If you have an issue, come to me and we can talk it out, we are adults, but do not lie on me. The first incident happened in October 2024 which was small, or so I thought… but then I was silently removed from one of the biggest projects of the year. Absolutely no announcement or notice, I was just left out of the meetings and removed from the Teams chats, etc. I had ZERO involvement in the planning and I am one of the Events Coordinators. Then at the last minute, I was asked to stay home and answer phones. I have worked this event every year since I started. I feel a microscope on me and I do not know who has it out for me or what I did and and now its always something else.
Or maybe someone has a better alternative to fit this situation other than a freezer spell? Please help