I bought a secret desires of the heart mind and body

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I taped a pic of my gf to it for the heart i wrote get my heart right for my gf. Get my mind right and then get my body right. The intent i placed on it was get me right for my gf. Now my gf is way into all of this. She has did candles for us without asking me. Anyway i just want to make sure that im not doing anything that is against her free will. I have attached a pic i edited it to where it dont show her last name

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Hi Kristopher and Welcome!

I’m not sure what it is that you bought, but I would say if the intention you placed on it was to get your mind right for your girlfriend, that’s perfectly fine. And also really nice that you want to be the best you can be for her.

Blessings to you both.

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Well according to her im casting a love spell and violating her spirituality and her free will. I dont understand it i read some books about empaths and how to help them and the safety they need all i wanted to do is get my mind body and heart right so that ican take energies off of her instead of her having blockages. It makes me not wantbto pursue this gift any longer

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Hi, @kristopher! I’m Amethyst. Welcome to the forum! :infinite_roots:

I agree with @Greenbriar. If you are casting a spell on yourself to better yourself, then it’s all good. I would say that you can even cast a spell to improve your love life, as long as you both agree to it.

The site has several Love Spells in its library. You might want to use a Self-Love Spell Jar to help with you improve yourself.

And then there’s this spell for couples. It’s a spell to strengthen a relationship.

Anyhow, I hope these help you!

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Hello @kristopher and welcome to the forum!

It sounds like your intent was pure - I think it’s very thoughtful of you to pursue ways to be a good match with your partner.

Every practitioner has their own personal ethics about what they believe to be “right” or “wrong” in casting, and there are some who follow a strict path about not casting on others without explicit permission. If your girlfriend saw the picture of herself on the candle, she may have accidentally believed the spell was being cast on her, and felt that her spiritual boundaries were crossed. But the focus and intention of the spell was on you - so it sounds like an honest misunderstanding to me!

I hope you’re able to clear the air and reconnect with your partner. Wishing you good luck - blessed be :sparkles:

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Hello @kristopher and welcome to the forum :waving_hand:

I tend to agree with what everyone else has already said here. Your intentions and magical direction was focused on you and not your girlfriend. I don’t see anything wrong with that, and I don’t personally view that as messing with someone else’s free will.

I do think that if all she did was see her picture in your spell, then she might be inclined to believe that you’re casting on her instead of on yourself. In this situation, I think it’s very important to have a discussion with her about what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. That might help clear up any misunderstandings. It will also help you understand her perspective, because she might see it differently than you do, and you’re never going to know that unless you talk about it.

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