Is this spell too big?

I am a fetus witch lol. I have a performed small little spells, but nothing of this magnitude. Long story short, after 8 long years, I reconnected with my Twin Flame, Soul Mate and my truly my Yang!

I need to remove a binding spell or any other spells or hex’s that have been placed on my Person by his ex permanently and remove her as a third party. Because I am certain there is a binding spell on him, I am fearful that I am not experienced enough to successfully perform the ritual that will remove any and all spells and/or hex’s that have been placed upon him either by his ex directly or done by someone else on her behalf, spiritually cleanse him and our relationship, while permanently protecting our union and permanently removing his ex as a third party (not in a bad way).

That being said, I reached out to a “professional spell caster” for assistance. After paying her for the service, she did not perform anything that I asked for or purchased. I kindly told her that I think she may have gotten my request confused with someone else and she informed that she performs spells in a certain way and she has to perform and be paid for four additional spells before she completes the spell that I already purchased!

I blame myself though. I guess she was able to sense my desperation and dire need to not permanently lose the love of my life, so she prayed on my desire.

I truly take my spiritual growth and the nurturing of my gifts extremely seriously and I don’t want to deep dive into spells and rituals that I don’t feel comfortable or confident in performing.

I really don’t know how to proceed.

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Binding spells and hex removal spells are actually quite simple. Your years of experience have nothing to do with it. It’s how strong your intent is on making it happen. Let me know if you would like some free help. I can give you several spells do binding her, removing her from his life, and reversing hexes. I do not recommend reaching out to unknowns to do spell work for you. You are not the first person to get scammed on them. You have an amazing coven of witches right here at your disposal who are more than a willing to help with no charge.

I understand it be scary or overwhelming when you are new. We were all there at some point. But when you see the spells, you can see how simple they are and that years of experience are not needed. :purple_heart::purple_heart::purple_heart:

I’m so sorry you went through this and are still going through it my love.

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Hello @lashunna,

It sounds like you’ve found someone you really connect with - I’m so happy for you! :blush: As for the “professional spell castor”, it does sound like they make money from preying on people, which is a very sad way to practice (and gives legitimate spiritual workers a bad name).

It’s always hard to cut losses, but it sounds like you made the right call to cut ties with them and take matters into your own hands.

On that note, I can’t say it better than Mystique - seconding this!

When it comes to casting spells, intention is vital. And no one wants the result to manifest more than the person making the wish - that is, you! As the person closest to the spell and the one who desires it most, you are in the best and strongest place to cast your spell. And, like Mystique said, it may be easier than you think - not to mention all the help and advice you here with your coven! :handshake: :infinite_roots: :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

Hex removal is a pretty simple first step. I like this simple hex removal spell with cinnamon and a green candle:

If you’re looking for something with a little more oomph, there are spells called “Back to Sender”. These types of spells not only remove the hex/curse from someone, they take the extra step of sending the hex back to whoever cast it. As such, Back to Sender spells are considered to be gray magick and may not align with everyone’s personal magickal ethics.

Here is one with a mirror if you are interested:

A note that, if cast as intended (to remove a hex/curse) if there isn’t a hex or curse on the person, there won’t be any results. It’s kind of a no harm, no foul type of spell (but again, every witch has the right to form their own opinion about hex removals/back to senders).

Binding spells are different than curses or hexes - binds (sometimes called energy cords) are the bonds that exist between people. If you wish to cut a bind, a Cord Cutting Spell might be what you are looking for.

In my experience, these tend to be very decisive and final. It can be hard to “go back” or “undo” a cord that has been cut. It is also recommended, as with most spells, that the person directly involved with the bind do the cutting themselves.

Here is more information about energy bonds/cords:

And here is a Cord Cutting Spell:


Whatever you choose to do, wishing you all the best - blessed be! :sparkles:

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If I may add to the good advice given to you, whatever you might choose to do, and if it aligns with your practice, before you do any type of the mentioned spells above, do some grounding and work into a protection circle. And only focus in just unbinding or the cord cutting, without wishing any harm to the other person.
From my experience at least, they might be simple to perform, but the energy emmited from breaking the bond might be overwhelming, and if not protected and with clear mind it might affect you.
Hope that everyting works out for you :magic_wand: :witch_cauldron:

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I wholeheartedly second this wonderful advice on taking steps to set your mind in the right frame and protect yourself from possibly being overwhelmed! :purple_heart:

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I think with anything in magick its important to focus ur intent., not question ur ability and believe in it. You gotta believe.

Also don’t be afraid to make mistakes that’s how we learn and hone our skills.

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Thank you so much!! I truly appreciate you and I am sooo happy I was lead to you all. I WOULD LOVE to receive any and all help you are willing give! You are the best! :face_holding_back_tears:

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Wow!! That is a WEALTH of information! Thank you so much! Having this amount of support means the world to me. Ive done a lot of research and it seems as if I was on the right track with deciding which spells to do! Thank you!

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I think @BryWisteria has posted links to most of the ones I was going to share. I didn’t have time to find the links this morning so I’m glad she was able to post them. :purple_heart::purple_heart::purple_heart:

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Sounds like we were of the same thought with the spells! Gotta love that hive mind :handshake: :blush: :honeybee:

I’m happy if I could help, lashunna! However you choose to move forward from here, good luck and blessed be :heart: :sparkles:

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Yup. Definitely a scam. Sorry you lost your money to this fraud. Glad you can stop before it gets worse. Avoid the person who did this from here on out. You don’t need her.

Proceeding with the spells offered here is a good choice. They won’t mess with your spirituality if you do your research and stay true to your beliefs and deepest intentions.

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That was honestly one of biggest concerns! I was worried about me getting lost in emotions because of how much this means to me! To be that close to finally being with the man that I have always known is my person and to have gotten a chance to experience a level of wholeness, safety and absolute peace that only he offers me, then to have someone who means him absolutely no good at all, create a bind to get him back stuck within her dangerous and toxic game….

(Insert exhale lol)

Whew!

I don’t think that I have ever written a run on sentence THAT long lol! And it would’ve kept going if the thumb on my right hand didn’t stop to look at me and ask if I needed to call my therapist lol)

Anywho, but as you all can see, there are a lot of emotions going on here! I want to keep my intentions and my mindset intact during each ritual. I am usually a very…logical person. I never act under the control of my emotions, but this time, it’s a bit different.

I have tried to fix my situation for over a week and a half now. Thats why I sought out the “help” of a “professional” lol. Then after speaking with my LOVELY new friends on here, I was fully prepared to complete everything and get my man! BUT
I. Can.Not.Get.A.Moment.To.Myself!!! (Insert soft scream) lol

Each day that passes by, my heart aches even more and my anxiety increases just as fast!

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:rofl::rofl::rofl: love this!

I find that using those strong emotions in your spells help them to be stronger. Just be sure you are keeping the emotions for that particular intent on the spell. Don’t let other emotions jump in. My ADHD brain likes to say “ok let’s do this, we are going to concentrate on this emotion
only long enough for this … oh look! Another emotion! Let’s throw it in the loop!” :rofl::rofl::rofl:

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I concur

Ditto :rofl:

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LOL!!! You definitely understand me! I have ADHD as well and boy it is a trip! Lol

I literally just got distracted and 3 times while attempting to write this response lol

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Well, since tomorrow is Friday, I am going to shoot for the stars and get my man! Lol!

I do have a question though, since there are several spells that I will need to cast, would it be okay to cast them all one after the other or would I need to take a break and perform protection and cleansing spells before beginning, between each spell and at the end?

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Hmmmm well, that all depends. I do chaos magick so if I didn’t become exhausted from one I would probably do another. But I would think doing one a day would probably be for the best. Some of the other people on here will probably have different advice for you. That’s what’s so wonderful about all the different types of practitioners on here! We get lots of ideas and then can sort out what works better for us.

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It’s up to how u feel. If the first wears u out spread it out. I don’t smoke cleansed my house all the time. Only when I think it needs it.

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Oh also if u want u can just wave a bell over your space and items to clear energy on the altar if you think u should cleanse

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@Mystique michelle u rock babe

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