This article will explore Black Moon Lilith, a lesser known point on our Natal Charts.
What is Black Moon Lilith?
Unlike the planets and asteroids, Black Moon Lilith is not a physical object. Instead, it is a point on the chart that is calculated based on the Moon’s orbit around the Earth. A little bit of Astronomy here:
The Moon does not or it the Earth in a perfect circle. Instead, it follows an elliptical path. At on point on this path, the Moon is at its closest point to Earth. This is known as the Perigee. Conversely, the Moon also passes a point in its orbit where it is at its furthest from Earth. This is the Apogee. The point of Apogee determines the location of Black Moon Lilith on your natal chart.
The Moon’s orbit fluctuates due to the influence of Earth’s gravity, taking 9 years to rotate. This means that Black Moon Lilith spends around 9 months in each zodiac sign. It is represented with this glyph:
Who is Lilith?
For me, Lilith is not a figure I was particularly clued up on. In fact, the only mention or depiction of her that I was aware of was of Satan’s wife in the Netflix series The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina. Like the planets, I like to know the mythology of the astrological namesake as it can often help in understanding the traits associated with them. Therefore, I spent a bit of time reading up on Lilith.
I found that she was a figure from Jewish mythology and the first wife of Adam. Apparently the Old Testament contains two contradictory versions of the creation story, one of which mentions Adam’s first wife, with whom he was displeased. He always wanted to be the dominant sexual partner and would not allow Lilith an opportunity in this role. She left him, defying God’s orders to return to her husband.
As a punishment she was told by angels that they would kill 100 of her children every day for her disobedience. In revenge, she vowed to harm babies and children. It was also said, that she sneaked back into the Garden of Eden and had sex with Adam while he slept, thus creating the Lilim. These were demons to replace her children killed by the angels. Eventually, Lilith agreed not to harm children as long as they wore an amulet bearing the names of the three angels.
When I read this, it seemed to me that perhaps Lilith had been demonised for perhaps daring to demand equality with her male counterpart. She rebelled against authority and refused to submit, making her appear dangerous in a patriarchal society. There is also a sense of fear in allowing female autonomy as this would have threatened societal norms. Lilith also comes across to me as a scapegoat for natural child mortality related, probably due living conditions of the times when the myths evolved. More recently, the demonisation and scapegoating of Lilith has somewhat dissipated and her refusal to comply could now be seen as an act of power and equality. She could be seen as representing the right to autonomy and freedom.
What does Black Moon Lilith represent in Astrology?
In astrology, Lilith represents the darker, more primal aspects of the psyche. It reflects themes of rebellion, empowerment, shadow work, and the unconscious. This point can relate to areas of life where we may feel suppressed, repressed or disempowered.
Lilith is often seen as our shadow self, the parts of our personality that we may suppress or hide because they are socially unacceptable or don’t comply with the image of ourselves that we want others to see. This might be our deep desires, raw emotions or instincts that we are either unaware of or don’t want to confront. Lilith’s position in your natal chart points to areas where you may struggle with these hidden or unacknowledged aspects. Remember though that embracing them can lead to personal growth and empowerment.
Lilith is often associated with rebellion and defiance, especially against patriarchal or societal norms. She represents a desire to break free from authority, conformity and restrictions, particularly in relationships, societal expectations and personal roles. Lilith is also linked to unapologetic femininity and sexual autonomy. She represents sexual freedom, empowerment and embracing our sensual and sexual nature without shame or guilt.She can highlight areas where you may have a deep connection to your sexual energy, or where you might need to reclaim power related to intimacy and sexual expression. She’s often seen as a symbol of sexual liberation, especially for women.
Lilith often represents the outsider or the marginalised part of yourself. She’s the part of you that feels excluded, misunderstood or cast out. Lilith may highlight areas where you feel like an outsider or where they are challenged by social norms. She can also point to areas where you may have unacknowledged power or hidden strength that you are afraid to fully express. Lilith also represents shadow work, including confronting fears, shame, guilt or trauma.
What does Black Moon Lilith mean in each sign?
Lilith in Aries
Lilith in Aries brings raw willpower and assertiveness. This suggests someone who will not allow themselves to be dominated or controlled by others or by societal expectations. For instance, a person with this placement might take the lead in group projects, confidently voicing their ideas and pushing boundaries. Aries is known for its courage and directness, so when Lilith is here, these qualities are amplified in the expression of sexuality, power, and a strong self-identity. Individuals may engage in activities like extreme sports or activism, demonstrating their need for freedom and challenge. Restrictions can lead to anger and frustration, as Lilith in Aries needs to express themselves fully. For example, someone in a stifling job may feel compelled to quit rather than conform. Personal freedom is crucial for these individuals, and they often feel a strong urge to break free from anything they view as limiting.
Lilith in Taurus
Lilith in Taurus deals with themes of physical pleasure, material security, and values. There’s a strong desire for sensual satisfaction and a need to feel grounded, but also a resistance to what society defines as wealth and worth. For example, a person with this placement might embrace a minimalist lifestyle, rejecting consumerism and opting for experiences over material possessions. They may also reject conventional views of beauty, such as opting for natural looks over makeup trends. This placement can indicate a deep connection to the body and sensual pleasures, as seen in someone who practices yoga or enjoys cooking and indulging in gourmet food. However, there can be struggles with feeling unworthy or overlooked, especially if they are unable to express their desires or connect deeply with their self-worth. For instance, they may avoid expressing their needs in relationships due to fears of not being taken seriously.
Lilith in Gemini
Lilith in Gemini challenges traditional ways of thinking and expressing ideas. This person may crave freedom of thought and unconventional communication. For example, they might engage in debates about controversial topics or explore various philosophies, often changing their opinions as they gather new information. There may also be a desire to break free from the rigidity of traditional education, leading them to pursue self-directed learning or alternative forms of education, like online courses or workshops. This placement may display mental restlessness or contradictory behaviours, such as starting multiple projects without finishing them. They might also be seen as manipulative or a trickster, using wit and humour to challenge others’ perspectives. Additionally, there’s an unconscious fear of being silenced, leading to rebellious expressions through art or writing. For instance, they might blog about taboo subjects or share unconventional ideas on social media, reflecting their desire to express themselves without constraints.
Lilith in Cancer
Lilith in Cancer is a powerful placement for those with a strong desire for emotional independence and a need to redefine their nurturing role. People with this placement often feel a deep conflict between wanting to feel safe and cared for while simultaneously resisting traditional roles associated with motherhood or emotional dependency. For example, someone with Lilith in Cancer might struggle to accept help from friends or family, viewing it as a sign of weakness or vulnerability. They may have unresolved maternal issues, such as complicated relationships with their own mothers, which can manifest as a reluctance to embrace their nurturing instincts. This placement challenges societal norms about femininity and caregiving, leading to intense emotional volatility when they feel trapped in roles they don’t align with. For instance, they may feel overwhelmed and frustrated in a traditional family setting, leading them to seek alternative lifestyles that honour their independence while still nurturing their emotional needs.
Lilith in Leo
Lilith in Leo highlights the desire to shine, be recognised, and assert individuality and creativity. Those with this placement often have a bold and magnetic presence. They have a real need to feel valued for who they truly are, rather than conforming to others’ expectations. For example, a person with Lilith in Leo may chase a career in the arts, seeking platforms where they can express their unique talents and perspectives. They might rebel against societal standards of beauty or talent, refusing to fit into any preconceived mould. This placement can also bring a strong desire for fame or acknowledgment, motivating individuals to push boundaries in their creative pursuits. However, they may struggle with feelings of being ignored or under appreciated, particularly in romantic relationships where their need for validation isn’t met. For instance, they might take bold steps to reclaim their self-respect, such as changing their appearance or pursuing unconventional projects that reflect their true selves.
Lilith in Virgo
Lilith in Virgo challenges conventional ideas of service, health, and perfectionism. Individuals with this placement often feel trapped by societal demands for order, duty, and productivity. For example, a person with Lilith in Virgo may rebel against rigid workplace expectations, choosing to follow their own path rather than conforming to traditional standards. They may feel frustrated by the unrealistic expectations they set for themselves or others, leading to struggles with self-criticism. This placement often fosters a desire to escape the pressure of always being “good enough,” prompting individuals to reject traditional views of cleanliness or order as a form of rebellion. For instance, they might embrace a more laid-back, messy lifestyle, finding freedom in imperfection. This perspective can also lead to questioning conventional health practices, as they seek alternative methods that align with their personal beliefs and values. Ultimately, Lilith in Virgo encourages people to reconsider what it means to serve and care for themselves and others.
Lilith in Libra
Lilith in Libra creates a rebellious stance towards traditional ideas of relationships, marriage, and love. This placement often challenges the concepts of balance and harmony in relationships, as individuals refuse to be constrained by conventional gender roles or societal expectations in partnerships. For example, a person with Lilith in Libra might choose to remain single or pursue non-traditional relationships that prioritise freedom and equality over societal norms. They may confront or reject partnerships that feel unequal or oppressive, advocating for relationships based on mutual respect rather than obligation. This can manifest as a strong desire to create connections that celebrate individuality rather than conformity. Additionally, individuals may have passionate views on beauty and justice, actively challenging established norms around aesthetic values or fairness in society. For instance, they might engage in activism or creative expressions that highlight social injustices, showing a commitment to standing up for individual rights and breaking away from the status quo.
Lilith in Scorpio
Lilith in Scorpio is deeply connected to themes of sexuality, power dynamics and transformation. It pushes us to reclaim sexual power and embrace emotional strength. Those with this placement explore their sexuality on their own terms, engaging in open relationships or alternative lifestyles that reflect their desires. They are drawn to intense emotional connections that challenge them to confront fears and desires, leading to transformative experiences marked by power struggles in relationships. This can show up as resistance to control, where they assert their independence and seek deeper understanding. They may also explore taboo subjects and unconventional ideas, engaging with themes of psychology or spirituality. Transformative issues, such as huge life changes or breakups, prompt this placement to reevaluate their desires and boundaries, leading to powerful rebirths. Lilith in Scorpio encourages deep emotional healing by embracing the darker aspects of our psyche. It transforms pain into strength and fosters self-discovery.
Lilith in Sagittarius
Lilith in Sagittarius represents an unquenchable thirst for freedom and truth. This placement embodies the spirit of the philosopher, explorer, and adventurer, as individuals resist conventional societal, religious, or cultural teachings. For example, a person with Lilith in Sagittarius might reject traditional educational pathways, opting instead for self-directed learning or travel as a means to explore diverse perspectives and ideas. They may feel confined by societal norms regarding beliefs or higher education, leading them to seek out alternative philosophies or spiritual practices that resonate with their inner truth. This placement encourages individuals to challenge orthodox views and question the meaning of life, often engaging in discussions or pursuits that promote intellectual freedom. For instance, they might become involved in movements that advocate for social change or philosophical inquiry, embodying a quest for understanding that transcends conventional boundaries.
Lilith in Capricorn
Lilith in Capricorn rebels against traditional structures of authority and success. This placement embodies a desire to break free from conventional expectations surrounding ambition, discipline and career. For example, a person with Lilith in Capricorn might choose an unconventional career path that defies family expectations, such as leaving a stable corporate job to pursue a passion for art or social justice. They may challenge traditional gender roles in the workplace, advocating for equality and flexibility in their professional life. This placement often represents a deep need for personal autonomy, leading to struggles with authority figures who impose strict boundaries or expectations. For instance, they might have conflicts with a boss who enforces outdated practices, prompting them to seek new ways of organising or leading within their field. Lilith in Capricorn encourages a quest to redefine success on their own terms, fostering innovative approaches to career and life.
Lilith in Aquarius
Lilith in Aquarius embodies a strong need for individuality and rebellion against conventional thinking. Those with this placement often feel like misfits, as their unique perspectives on life often clash with societal norms. For example, a person with Lilith in Aquarius might pursue unconventional hobbies or lifestyles that set them apart from their peers, such as advocating for radical social reforms or engaging in avant-garde art projects. This placement encourages progressive ideas and radical changes, leading us to challenge the status quo in the community… People may feel drawn to unconventional or progressive causes, such as environmental activism or human rights, often resisting conformity and seeking out like-minded individuals. For instance, they might organise grassroots movements that promote social change, emphasising the importance of individuality and collective progress. Overall, Lilith in Aquarius inspires a quest for belonging that honours uniqueness rather than conformity.
Lilith in Pisces
Lilith in Pisces challenges traditional ideas of spirituality and empathy. This placement seeks to explore mystical realms and hidden knowledge, often feeling a strong desire for transcendence. For example, someone with Lilith in Pisces might gravitate towards alternative spiritual practices, such as meditation, astrology or paganism, rejecting rigid religious doctrines that feel limiting. There’s often a struggle with boundaries, particularly regarding emotional sensitivity and vulnerability; they may find it difficult to protect their emotional well-being, leading to potential escapism or addiction. For instance, an individual might turn to creative outlets like music or art as a means of coping with overwhelming emotions, or they may seek solace in substances to escape reality. This placement embraces intuition and emotional depth while resisting societal pressures to conform to rigid moral or religious systems. It encourages us to explore of the self and the mysteries of our existence.
How can I find the location of Black Moon Lilith on my natal chart?
You can find your Lilith sign by clicking the link below:
· https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/
· Enter your date, time and location of birth.
· Click CALCULATE CHART
· Look at the Planet Positions on the right hand side.
· Look for the Lilith Glyph.
· The glyph of its Zodiac sign is found next to it.
The chart below shows that my Lilith is in Pisces. Reading the interpretation above, I would say that this pretty much me, particularly with the unconventional or alternative spiritual practices. Even within the Pagan community, the worship of Egyptian deities is very much a small part of this.
I quit my stable job in a hospital to become a freelancer. Now, that’s still what I’m doing, but I’m going to school to be a nurse! I’ll have to read some more about how the Black Moon Lilith placement works with other chart placements, too, to see if there’s more to learn.
I always love learning more about astrology!