So true…
I feel like we have to fight harder to be taken seriously, too. Like, it’s been ingrained that the things we do or think or try to contribute are all silly, overly “emotional,” not worth being taken seriously, etc. even if they’re the exact same as what another person is suggesting or doing. If I had a dollar for every time I gave an idea, had it rejected, and then a male colleague comes along saying the same thing and gets praised for it…
I already have to deal with enough imposter syndrome daily just from the nature of my software engineering job. The joy of always running into inexplicable problems and going through the gauntlet of “Did you try this? Did you try that? Are you sure you didn’t do that other thing wrong?” It’s part of the process, of course, but it can be tiring.
Now that I think about it… The family I grew up with didn’t help, either. Always telling me I can’t achieve anything.
Anyway, what I’m trying to say in more words than necessary, as usual, is… The hurdles seem to never end. I should be kinder to myself for getting tired by it all. But I’ll continue on.
And I’m grateful for everyone’s support x100 because of all of this. You’re helping to put the final nails in the coffin of my self-doubt. And I hope I can help others get the courage to “just do it,” too.
Oh no. I’m such a sucker for candles. I would love some! …If I can handle the shipping cost to Australia.
If you like, you can experiment on me for international shipping logistics.
If you have the time and energy, go for it!
And if you have any questions, I can probably help, too.
For example, since you’re selling physical products, I would say you might want to make only a few listings and set up variants on each one. Because each listing costs a flat amount to list at all. Then Etsy ads add up, if you use them…
I also have some experience with SEO from my website management days. So I can help with keywords a little, too. (But of course, I’ve been lazy with my own, because “I can fix them later”… )