I made another spell! This one just came to me and started spilling out almost. I was thinking of an oil that could help boost the passion and joy of love between my husband and I. We are good, just hit 15 years of marriage yesterday!! But, we are getting older and passions can dwindle without some ignition!! Thats what I hope this is…the ignition!
I used AI to help me make a background, then I popped it into my graphic software and added the words on top. Too easy!
I’ve been feeling similar lately. we’ve been married a few years more than you. Do you mind if I “borrow” your spell &oil? I love the background as well
@shanna5 I think you spell is beautifully written and the ingredients you have chosen for your Oil are lovely. I been with my Husband for 30 years. It is also perfect for the next Sabbat and Summer Solstice. Thank you for your sharing we could all use this even if single for some self-care. Congratulations.
@shanna5 Congratulations on 15 years and thank you. It takes work, this works for me
I keep up with any beauty treatments (tidy if you know what I mean) and hair/ dental appointments. If you feel good yourself then it shows and then they pick up on that you are happy and keeps them paying you attention
I wear a little perfume.
I start a text with Hi sweetheart it softens my request for what I want them to do for me
As strong women we tend to just get on with it but sometimes letting them think you can’t do something helps them as they it boosts their feelings that they are needed. A bit of sugar goes along with rather than a carrot. You are in charge really without them knowing
We don’t have phones or TV at the dining table so we can talk about each other’s day
We go for a coffee with my Husband after we have done our weekly shop before going back home we are away from distractions and again you can have a catch up
It is the little thoughts that count like if I am out shopping on my own and a see a cake or something I know he will love then I will bring it home it does not need to cost much but they are happy that you thought of them. In time they do it for you a little surprise
I always get a Birthday, Valentines Card
We always kiss before my Husband goes to work and before we go to sleep
We have a rule not to go to bed on an argument. If we have, then one of us has to say sorry as the clock is ticking we always end up laughing as we have to stick to this rule
I never stopped him from seeing his parents as they can blame you. They really want to see him on his own sometimes as they want quality time as parents get older they tend to focus more on this especially if they cannot get out and about
Stress in a relationship is inevitable could be many factors, work, finances, family commitments. I keep my home decluttered, tidy, a sanctuary everything has a home so that he can find anything so it saves the question “Do you know where it is”’ saves me a lot of stress
We both have own our chores, he cuts the lawn, takes the wheelie bins to the front driveway ready for collection, last one who uses the shower cleans it. It tends to be him!
These are just a few ideas I am sure that others may add but the main thing is communication and lots of cuddles.
I love the background as well 
