I lost my dog Finley today. He died in my husband’s arms on the way to the vets. I am away with my friends. As you can imagine devastating news. He had heart failure and was on medication but he went down hill fast.
I see my cat beloved cat in my visions so I’m confident I will see Finley, he was my heart n soul my wingman my everything. He came to my new home with me in the country and on the beach. I’m trying to be brave as my granddaughter was with my husband at the time so she was heartbroken. She has lost her lovely friend Freddy the cat and now Finley this year.
Any spells to help with the grieving process would be grateful appreciated
I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved Finley. It’s never easy to lose one of our fur babies - they leave paw prints on our hearts.
There are quite a few posts here in the forums with spells to help with the grieving process after the loss of a pet, including this one by @silverbear :
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my cat Max around this time four years ago and I still miss cuddling with him. Just know that Finley ran across the Rainbow Bridge and is with their furry sibling now.
I found that this prayer helped me when Max passed. Maybe it will help you.
Sending you some comforting energy. The loss can be devastating. May the memories of all the love shared stay with you and comfort you during this time. I’m sorry friend. Blessings to you and yours.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your Finley, @carrianne. It’s devastating when our furry friends cross over. I’m sure he’ll be waiting and watching over you with love from beyond. Sending big hugs while you mourn and honor his memory
First, I am sorry for your loss @carrianne, and doubly so that you couldn’t be there with him.
I wish I could say there was a magick spell or an easy way to glide through grieving, but there isn’t. I think it’s important to feel it all deeply at the beginning, even if it’s crushing, just to get it out. I didn’t get out of bed for three days after Donut’s unexpected passing.
I can look for some of my posts about how I navigated it if that’s helpful. The things that helped me the most were remembering all the wonderful. silly, funny things about him, making a memorial shadowbox, buying a granite marker for his grave, and creating a handmade silver pendant from his paw print. But those were steps along a long path of 8-10 months.
I still see him out of the corner of my eye when I get up in the middle of the night, or feel him jump up on the bed to join me. I know he’s still around if I need him.
Don’t be hard on yourself, this is tough and horribly so, but Finley won’t be far from you in spirit and will always be in your heart.
This may help or may make you cry more, but a phrase I love is:
I loved you all of your life. I will miss you all of mine.
sending love and light your way 
xx
Naturally you will feel it more keenly because you weren’t there. But he wasn’t alone, and that’s what matters.
