This is a beautiful exploration of Persephone, @MeganB- She isn’t a deity I’ve worked with much myself, but I know that She has called to several folks here in the forum. I always really enjoy learning about deities, their correspondences, and their personal stories! 
About the Rape of Persephone, I remember @Amethyst sharing about a recent book that portrays Persephone in a more positive and empowered light.
I have to agree that I also prefer the legends of female deities who make their own choices, or in dark times, finds ways to make the best of their situation. Perhaps those kinds of dieites resonate with me more, or perhaps it’s just my taste in stories! 
Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom, Megan- this was a great read! 