I made a very difficult decision to break up with my boyfriend of 8 months today. I am confident that my decision was the right choice but I definitely have a lot of accumulated negative energy from the ongoing issues which lead up to the breakup and the pain of losing a relationship with someone I deeply cared about.
Does anyone have any recommendations for spells that might help me release/cleanse this negative energy? Neither one of us are holding on so a cord-cutting does not seem appropriate. I don’t want to do anything that affects him, just something that will help rebalance my energy.
Thank you, I did a search after posting this. I ended up doing a cleansing bath that I altered a bit for what I had on hand. After that I did feel a lot better and I ended up doing a Protection Amulet spell for a couple of amulets I made, one for me and one for my best friend. I wasn’t sure if I should with my energy being affected by the breakup, but I felt like the cleansing bath rebalanced my energy enough and the timing was right for the spell I wanted to do. It was the first time I cast a circle and it was a really positive experience.
Oof I’m sorry you are going through a breakup as well. It’s so hard and 7 years is a long time. I think it’s healthy to balance cleansing your energy with letting yourself grieve. I hope your path forward is more peaceful.
Hoping to focus on the whole self-love thing for awhile.
