Without going into too much detail as to why this particular spell might be necessary, (think snoring and insomnia) I thought I would share it anyway. It may be of use to any couple who, for one reason or another, have to sleep apart, even though they love each other.
So I was thinking about this and going through the herbs and crystals I have available at the moment and came up with this spell jar which I put together today. (I did two, one for me, and one for my husband)
As usual, I worked with Microsoft’s CoPilot to help me write it. Please feel free to copy it to your BOS if you wish.
Spell Jar for Love, Partnership and Connection
Purpose of the Spell Jar
This spell jar is designed to strengthen the bond of love, deepen the partnership, and nurture the emotional and spiritual connection between a married couple who are separated physically at night. The ingredients—rose quartz, rose petals, yarrow, and lemon balm—are carefully chosen for their potent association with love, harmony, and emotional well-being.
Ingredients
-
Rose Quartz: Known as the stone of unconditional love, rose quartz fosters trust, compassion, and emotional healing within relationships.
-
Rose Petals: A classic symbol of love and romance, these petals carry the essence of passion and tenderness.
-
Yarrow: Often associated with protection and fidelity, yarrow strengthens emotional bonds and creates a sense of safety and stability in relationships.
-
Lemon Balm: A soothing herb that promotes calmness, emotional clarity, and harmonious communication.
Items You Will Need
-
A small glass jar with a lid (preferably clear to visualize intentions).
-
A pink candle (symbolizing love and partnership).
-
A pen and small piece of parchment or paper for writing your intentions.
-
An optional piece of red or pink ribbon to tie around the jar.
Steps to Create the Spell Jar
1. Prepare Your Space
Begin by cleansing your space with incense, sage, or your preferred ritual method. Set up a quiet and sacred area where you can focus without interruption. Light the pink candle to welcome the energy of love and harmony into the space.
2. State Your Intention
On the piece of parchment, write down your heartfelt intention. For example: “May our love grow stronger, our partnership remain steadfast, and our connection flourish despite physical distance.” Fold the parchment and hold it close to your heart as you visualize your intention manifesting. Feel the love, warmth, and unity between you and your partner.
3. Fill the Jar
Layer the ingredients into the jar in the following order:
-
Start with the rose quartz, as the foundation of unconditional love.
-
Add a generous pinch of rose petals to infuse the jar with romance and affection.
-
Sprinkle in the yarrow for lasting emotional bonds and protection.
-
Finish with lemon balm for calmness and harmonious energy.
As you place each ingredient into the jar, speak its purpose aloud or silently, affirming its role in your intention.
4. Seal the Jar
Place the folded parchment into the jar on top of the ingredients. Seal the jar tightly with its lid. Wrap the red or pink ribbon around the jar, tying it securely with a knot. As you tie the ribbon, affirm your intention once more: “May this jar hold the energy of love, partnership, and connection between [your name] and [your partner’s name], wherever we may be.”
5. Charge the Jar
Hold the sealed jar in your hands and focus all your energy and intention into it. Visualize a radiant light of love enveloping the jar and flowing between you and your partner. Let the pink candle burn for a few minutes as you meditate on this vision. Once you feel confident, extinguish the candle safely.
Placement and Preservation
Place the finished spell jar somewhere meaningful, such as on your bedside table, near a shared photo, or in a sacred space. Each time you see it, take a moment to reflect on your love and connection. If desired, recharge the jar periodically by lighting a pink candle and reaffirming your intention.
Closing the Ritual
Thank any spirits, deities, or energies you called upon during the ritual. Take a moment to ground yourself and express gratitude for the love and partnership you share with your spouse.
This spell jar is imbued with love and intention, serving as a tangible reminder of your enduring bond, even when apart.
In our case I did one for Eric and one for me, that we can each keep on our desk or nightstand, keeping us spiritually connected at any time of day or night, even if we aren’t physically together.
