Are you on vacation with him right now?
If you’re with him, I’d suggest doing a spell together. It can definitely open the door to more honesty and transparency. For example, Cast a circle together so you’ll have a sacred space and time.
Otherwise, work on communication, for example try this spell: Mercury Retrograde and Difficult Communication
Also make sure to stay grounded. Clarity stones like clear quartz should help. Follow this Mental Clarity Spell with a clear quartz.
Making a jar or witch’s bottle with ingredients for communication will create a space for more honesty, which absolutely can transform your relationship.
Witchy Ingredients for Communication:
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Herbs/Plants: Carnation, Chamomile, Daisy, Dandelion, Fennel, Garlic, Geranium, Jasmine, Lavender, Lily, Marigold, Rosemary, Valerian, Violet.
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Stones and Minerals: Agate (black), Amazonite, Amethyst, Apatite, Aquamarine, Azurite, Blue Lace Agate, Calcite (clear), Cerussite, Chrysoprase, Danburite, Fluorite, lolite, Jasper, Kunzite, Kyanite, Lapis Lazuli, Lodestone, Malachite, Moonstone, Morganite, Moss Agate, Quartz (clear), Sapphire, Selenite, Sodalite, Tanzanite, Tiger’s Eye, Topaz (blue), Turquoise.
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Tarot: Magician.
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Color: Blue, Indigo, Orange.
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Gods: Apollo, Arawn, Balder, Bragi, Loki, Lugh, Mercury, Prometheus, Thoth.
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Goddesses: Brigid, Don, Fides, Hera, Iris, Sarasvati, Seshat.