Hello! I’m in a relationship but the spark is gone on my end. I don’t want to force a spark back if it’s not meant to be. But I want whatever is suppose to be happen the way it should. Whether he finally lets me go or I get the spark back. We’ve been in this limbo for awhile and I just need a little spell boost to get out of the limbo.
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Hey there, @Blahhitsjazmin!
We have a few online here on the site. I’ll link you to them!
I also feel that there may be some spells linked to Beltane. It’s the sexed up pagan holiday after all! LOL! But off hand, I don’t know of any. But I hope these help!
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Wonderful Witchy Wednesday Blah,
I hear ya!!
Kinda the same situation over here with me. I am not sure what to tell you, our situations for the missing “spark” are probably different. As for spell work, I use these often,
1–Fill this space with joy and love; send your blessings from above
2-using sound, bells, music, sing: By this sound the way is clear, I will speak for all to hear; my intent is understood, my will for the higher good. (state your will first, in your case you need the spark to return, the higher good, is for harmony in the home).
You can try a mirror chant….sit facing a mirror in the dark with a candle behind you (as not to shine in the mirror) as are facing the mirror visualize your outcome and chant, Earth and Sea, keep harm from me; Wind and Fire, bring my desire.
I hope these can help you out. I use these myself. Along with a burn spell, where I burn away the behaviour that I wish to leave (to make room for more pleasant emotions).
Anyway, good luck, baby, I hope these work out!
Lady Gene 
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Hi there! I’m sorry you’re in this funk, but rather than leaning on a spell, have you asked yourself if you’ve done the mental work yet to see why this is happening? A spell will never cure all unless you are in the headspace you need to be in to have a healthy relationship. They do have tides… (relationships I mean) It’s never all passion, or all love. It is life after all.
I am not trying to “give a lecture” I am just speaking of my own reality. I have been with the same man for 35++ years. Things happen in cycles and we have learned to accept them and allow them and grow from them. We have gone for months without a “spark” but the love and trust and mutual dependance had been there. We have many differences, and we immerse ourselves mentally with each other during those times when the attraction is not there. It’s a self-fulfilling relationship. It’s mental, it’s physical and it’s SO fulfilling!
It’s not the movies though, it’s hard. And we work it hard to make sure that every part of our relationship is full and the rest comes when it comes (no pun intended)
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I absolutely 100% wish you all your most desired dreams!
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