I found today that my partner knows what it is keeping me from my magic but niether one of us know how to tear it down so I can grow
Iâm sorry to hear something is blocking you on your path, @weston- would you be willing to share what it is? Iâm sure the coven would be happy to share advice and any possible solutions we can come up with in hopes of helping you tear down the blockage 
(Of course you do not have to share if you donât feel comfortable doing so!)
Blessed be! 
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it is ok. so my other half is telling me i have a blockage in my mind he said it was put there a long time ago.I feel as if it is something somebody in my past, maybe a father or mother im not sure. he said it seems as if somebody sold my essince
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Thank you for explaining more about the blockage you are dealing with, @weston 
I hope you donât mind that I went ahead and moved this out of the Share a Topic space and upgraded it into a discussion of its own to help it gain attention here in the busy forum.
The coven is a very wise collective- I hope they will have some wonderful advice and suggestions you might consider! 
If I can offer my personal thoughts, I would suggest that you begin to explore more about the blockage- see if you can try to find out exactly where it came from and what caused it to lodge itself in your mind (if you feel safe and comfortable doing so).
One possible method for exploring mental blockages and potential traumas of the past that can prevent forward movement is through Shadow Work 
. Shadow Work involves exploring the darker and less welcoming parts of our minds and can thus be difficult, so I always recommend it in tandem with Self Care Work
May I ask if he has any more insights or ideas about what this could mean? Does your essence here perhaps refer to your soul?
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I feel as if there is a veil over his spirit. Like a curse placed upon him unknowlingly maybe done as a debt from his parents to a god or fae in payment for there wants. Maybe before he was ever thought of or existed. But its blocking his enery or ancestrial gifts. We purchased and lit a triple curse cancel candel and it burned steady and unbelivably slow a full Seven Days. So I dont know how to help him. I feel lost as to were to start. I really feel like he should speak to his parents or call out to his passed blood ancestors spirits. I know whatever the remedy the debt needs to be paid. He will never trully feel complete and will continue to experience bad luck and blockage until fixed.
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I plan on doing the Road Opener spell for myself, to open the way to good fortune. Maybe something like this will help you out.
Shadow work would definitely help, but if youâre going to dig too much into your past and your parents you might need a therapist.
Sorry I couldnât be more help.
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thank you. I was looking into the road opener spell this morning. I think i will nbe trying it out soon. Thank you for what info you could give i really appreiciate it so much bledded be
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Dealing with a blockage can be a tricky situation, especially if you donât know why itâs there or who put it there, if at all. In my practice, I very much believe in generational curses. It sounds like youâve already gone down that path of exploration with a curse cancel candle â thatâs a good course of action!
I would also suggest the road opener spell shared by Amethyst. Thatâs another good point to start at! From my own personal experience, I would adapt the road opener spell we have here to be sure the incense burns the way it should (I shared what happened to me here).
I donât think itâs possible for someone to completely block another personâs magical ability â however, this is a personal belief that I hold, not something I have any sort of rules or anything about, if that makes sense. Sometimes the blockage can be of our own making, too. This is where shadow work can come in handy. 
I wish you all the luck with figuring this out and I hope youâll keep us updated!
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@weston
Gee honey, to us you really are a newbie and more than welcome. 6 days old!
Iâve done some investigation on the blockage of magic. What I found was a few interesting
sites.
This may not be the answer but it is something you can look into.
Many blessings
Garnet
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Thank you, you are correct I have tried a few different things and i have had alittle change so far. Thank you for sharing you experiance that is trruly a blessing. Once again thank you.
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Youâre very welcome! I wish you all the best in your quest to clear whatever is blocking you
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Be mindful on the present moment. Donât dwell on the past or think about all the tasks you need to complete in the future. Mindfulness is letting yourself be in the here and now and just noticing. Be mindful of how you feel and what is making you feel that way. I like to take a cleansing bath followed by a deep smudging. I mean in your dresser, fridge anywhere âthe fogâ can hide. Then I do a return to sender spell and I do it for as many days I feel appropriate to banish the feeling. This is a sample of of some of the teaching from the kabylion. You should research it. Itâs so helpful in situations like this and many others. What it is, is what it is. How we handle it and let it define us is what we think it should be. Or is it???
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thank you so much i will be researching this tonight. yes i have been training my mind to stop worriing about the past or future olny the now and it has helped so much.
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@MeganB oh my dear it most definitely is a possibility. Just as its possible to take away someones magik, with the blessing of their God/Goddess.
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I totally understand 100%. I am still learning to deal with the trama of my Son passing away. So I know how it is to let things replay in our mind. What we could of should of done ect⌠Its hard to let that go. Just know your not alone and you have friends here if you need to talk. One thing I have learned is not to bottle it up. Thats powerful energy turn it into something fabulous!
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Hmm 
I wonder what that would entail, then? Itâs not something Iâve ever come across personally so I guess I havenât given it enough thought. Would it be like turning off a faucet, so to speak? Or like putting up a wall so the magic canât be accessed?
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@MeganB the experience ive had is that they cant access their magik for this life. They canât touch it at all. And when they pray to deities it will go unanswered. Abuse of the gifts bestowed upon someone is a huge no no.
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So in your experience, it generally comes from a higher power thatâs blocked access to magical ability, usually for abuse of that power in a previous life (or current life)?
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Weston stated that maybe they put a hex or curse on him. With that being said the rule of three or threefold law dont apply. And heres why, because if your being attacked you are now using it as Magical Self Defense.
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@MeganB yes we had to get her Diety involved. Actually he reached out to us. But u get the idea.
But yes if u, in this life or past, abuse your gifts in anyway they can be stripped from u.
I sent u a dm with more info about my experience. But oh yes it can be done.
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