Fae are fabulous, I don’t invite them or work with them specifically, but they have free reign of my home. I have been encouraged to work with them particularly in creative matters, and I know they like cakes (home baked). So we are getting to know each other. 
Fae have a different code to us and it’s good to remember that so we don’t upset them. If for example you upset a Fae, they can sometimes retaliate but it’s not them being nasty, it’s just their way of exercising justice. They are fun, mischievous and sometimes, we’d view it as wicked, but in their minds it’s fun. If you remember that, you won’t get in a war with them and let go their idiosyncrasies. They are great allies, fabulous to work with but make terrible enemies. 
A few basic courtesy.
Don’t name them. We are not entitled to be that familiar with them, it’s rude.
Don’t force them, if they want to meet you, they will come to you.
They’re very smart.
They’re psychic.
They’re old.
If you want to work with them, it’s a give and take relationship. When I do something creative, they like a creative reward, and they like my cakes, a bought one from a shop would be a snub so I bake one. So far, so good. I give little gifts, shiny things, flowers and I thank them without saying thankyou, sounds mad but the Fae in my home, don’t want to get too familiar or feel obligated to me. I don’t know if that’s all Fae or just the ones here 
Respect nature, take care of your garden, my Fae hate it if I let the lawn get too long. 
A few offerings for my lot, homemade cakes, flowers, milk, fruit, wine, a tasty supper, cookies and sweets and honey. Try to offer organic produce as they hate chemicals and will say so!
Fae steal. Though in their eyes your house is their house, your stuff is their stuff. Be nice ask nicely for it back, exchange it for cake and you may get it back. If you don’t, sorry, tough!
There are ways of getting rid of Fae but I wouldn’t recommend it, first they’re really wonderful creatures to have around even if you don’t interact with them, and second, they have long memories
All the above and much more is in this book.
Make a little temple for them. Here’s mine
And read up on this challenge, it’ll give you some ideas about Fae.
Weekly Witchy CHALLENGE - Fairies & Fae
All in, if you have Fae show up, it’s an honour, if you don’t want to work with them, that’s fine. My lot have been here years, I’m only just starting to work with them now, and they’ve been a pleasure to have around. They’ve nicked tons of stuff, some returned most gone forever
, I just let it go, it’s just stuff.
Enjoy, and definitely get the above book, it has some fabulous history and spell work. 
It might be time to embrace the chaos, if you haven’t already. 
Oh my. The weather’s crazy everywhere. 
