Merry Meet Monday - Witchy News of the Week! (Jan 8 - 14) 🌑

Thank you, @CelestiaMoon and @tracyS! :black_heart:

I’m glad to call you my friends, too. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: :black_heart:

Hey, if it works for you both, that’s the best outcome! Sometimes, we do find who we need to find. And it sounds like you did just that. :smile: :black_heart:


I almost forgot my almost-scheduled random sky photo. :laughing: Here’s tonight’s sunset at 20:12. The sky was like fire. :fire:

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I believe so too :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: And I feel the same with my previous relationships, there was lots of love and important lessons both ways. All of us got a little bit closer to who we are, sometimes it comes with the realization of not wanting to be together after all and that’s okay too, even if it’s painful. I have a good feeling about this one lasting though :blush: :sparkling_heart:

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At least you’ve moved in. I hope you stay safe in the storm!

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Congratulations!!! :tada: And I for one an so glad you took the time to

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Yea I know…maybe we’re gonna have to wear helmets! :crazy_face:

My husband also has these worries. He fell down concrete steps and he has many of the same problems. He also developed mental health issues as a result.

That’s what PT recommended. Instead of going til I’m exhausted just do a little bit at a time, especially with exercise. Why didn’t I think of that :thinking:

My husband doesn’t always understand how hard things are for me, but at the same time he doesn’t push me because he sees me struggling.

The other thing with ALS is energy conservation, so that’s another factor. I have leg braces and special shoes which are heavy. The other thing that gets to me is even if I exercise to keep my muscles strong, I will still lose those muscles. Sometimes I think well what’s the point, but I don’t give up!

You’re not overstepping! I appreciate the suggestions and will try them! I also appreciate how much you care! Love you too :heart: :kissing_heart:

Sometimes we do need a little push. Feeling personally attacked when someone gives us criticism is very heard to get over that thinking even if it’s helpful. I still think of some of those criticisms and feel bad even though they weren’t bad.

That is great! Sometimes it takes time, but with communication and honesty, you can work together to make your relationship stronger! I’ve learned that I have to be very specific with my husband when I want him to do something in particular situations. Idk if that makes. Often times he just doesn’t know what to do. I realized he’s not a mind reader!

Thank you so much! Love you! :heart:

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Oh, I forgot to mention that my son got his 1st college acceptance letter! They offered him at $18000 scholarship per year for 4 years! I’m so proud of him!

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That’s amazing! Congrats to him! :slightly_smiling_face:

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@Sivonnah That’s fabulous :sparkling_heart:

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John thank You :blush:
For all ur LOVE :two_hearts:
You are on top of the world :earth_americas: I hope you have a wonderful year ahead!
Jeannie

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Congratulations to your son! That’s freaking awesome! So happy for you guys. Going off that other post you made on feelings. A good idea would be to write out how this makes u feel. How does it make you feel that he got the scholarship on his own. I’m sure u have feelings about it. It would also be a good ice breaker into feeling and targeting emotions. Just a thought :thinking:

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Excellent idea! Thank you!:blush::heart::kissing_heart:

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@Nixi I just fell again! Hit my head! Ugh so frustrating. It’s gonna take some time before I walk much again! I feel so helpless when I fall because I cannot get up. I can’t even use my legs to help when someone lifts me. Anyway…enough about my troubles!

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I’m sorry your body doesn’t like you right now, @Sivonnah. Hope you’re okay!

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Oh no, I hope you’re okay! :heart: :heart:

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I’m so sorry this happened. I hope you can feel a bit better and have enough acccessible tools in your tool belt (wheelchair/rollator), etc. to help make you as independent as you can be and know that you also are depending on others (not a bad thing). I hope you can have your home and all environments as accessible as possible and as safe as possible for you. Thinking of you. Take time for rest too.

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Oh I’m so sorry I hope you are okay honey :honey_pot: :pray:

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Thank you all for the concern! I am ok!

I have wheelchairs, rollators, hand rails, etc…the only problem is getting my wheelchair through doorways! Damn house is not very accessible, but we’re working on it! I run into everything and tore the weather stripping off the door lol :laughing: :rofl::crazy_face:

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Oh honey I’m so sorry. How do you feel? I describe mild - moderate concussion as feeling like you’ve had a bit too much what I call Magic Medicine but without the fun part :laughing: My husband keeps threatening to wrap me in bubble wrap, looks like he should send you some too :woman_facepalming:t2: and when I said walk, I didn’t mean run :laughing:

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@Sivonnah So sorry lovely. Are you feeling alright now? :sparkling_heart:

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Congratulations @tracyS & @john1 :tada: Wonderful to have you both in the forum!

I’m sorry you are going through all of this @Sivonnah & hope you are okay after hitting your head! I do have a roll of bubble wrap if you should need it. Congratulations :confetti_ball: on your son receiving an acceptance letter too!

Happy 1 year anniversary @starborn, sorry it’s belated, but wonderful that you have been with us for a while now! :revolving_hearts:

@CelestiaMoon I’m so happy for you & your girlfriend. It’s always nice to have some balance & be able to work with each other in a beneficial way.

We had a weird version of the winter storm, it was more rain & wind than snow, so it was actually like slushy heavy snow that was melting, then froze, then it rained again… now there’s no snow & it was 47 here today. We did have some coastal flooding where the roads were closed for a week on the coast & are still being worked on in certain areas. We also have another high wind & heavy rain storm coming this week too.

I’ve had a week full of surprises. Really since last Friday morning… it’s just been multiple surprises each day. Some needed immediate attention & others just interrupted every day this week. :face_exhaling: Family urgent & emergency medical visits among others.

I hope that everyone has been able to have a good week so far! I’m working on re-organizing my things… but these daily emergent visits & multiple necessary follow ups & items that have been needed have taken a toll that’s for sure!

@john1 good idea with the snow water. I had some the last time it snowed here. I do have ocean water, moon water, & storm water. It’s been a while since I’ve had some good snow water though :thinking:

@Devenne these may help you with how to work with Snow Water :snowflake:

Snow Magick - Connecting with Water
How to use Snow Water for Rituals :snowflake: -External Site

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