This will be my first spell.
I am wanting to perform a spell that will compel people around me to be honest, protect me from possible lies, deceit, manipulation, & gaslighting, while also helping me trust my intuition and improve my memory.
Thanks!
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I don’t know about manipulation and gaslighting, other than to use that gas to set them on fire, but there’s some truth information that might help you out!
I even looked through Dorothy Morrison’s Utterly Wicked, which is my go to hexing book, and I didn’t see anything on gaslighting. Sorry. Hope the above helps!
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This seems to be a collection of spells rather than just one.
This will be a good Truth spell, mentioned by @amethyst. I have cast Truth spells on myself to help me see through whatever is out there rather than try to force someone to speak the Truth, possibly against their will.
This is a good protection spell- there are many you can choose from. I’d encourage you to use the search function and peruse Spells8 here to find the best one for your needs at the moment:
Much of this comes through practice. You are the magick. The more you use it, the more you will be able to trust it. You got this one. I believe in you!
I could use one of these spells!
Once you have your selection of favorites, tie them together in your own personal way. Some use herbs or crystals which specialize in multiple duties, adding them to jars or bags. Others call on deities which have multiple specialties. You will get the idea once you have seen what tools each of these spells use.
I’d like to encourage you to write your own combination spell and share the results with us, if you are comfortable doing so. It would be good to see you grow in the process.
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Hello @jann68,
You’ve got some great spell suggestions from Amethyst and Georgia. If I can add a few more things to the pile, here are few intuition and memory resources you might consider.
There was a coven challenge about intuition and how to use it. You might check out the entries the coven shared - there are a lot of great ideas in the comments of the challenge post.
Ginkgo and Rosemary are two plants associated with memory, particularly improving and enhancing memory abilities. You might include them in a spell or ritual to add their properties. Alternatively, you could look into teas, tinctures, or other ways to consume them - but as with all herbs, it’s a good idea to check with a trusted herbalist and/or doctor first to make sure a new herb is a safe match for you.
Whatever you choose to do, wishing you good luck with your first spell, Jann! Feel free to share details and let us know how things go. If you have any questions, we’re here and happy to bounce ideas around 
Blessed be!
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Hey @jann68 ! You have gotten some wonderful advice from @BryWisteria , @Amethyst and @georgia .
If I wanted all of this rather than doing two or three different spells, I would research spells for each, take out parts that resonated with me and write my own spell combining it all together. I would do it in a jar, put bits from each spell into the jar and either set it somewhere I would see it every morning or freeze it. If it were sitting out I would hold the jar every morning and do a quick recite of the main intents of the spell. If I put it in the freezer, I know I’m good as my intent of the spell has been frozen.
Hope you get some help from this.
Blessings 
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Thank you! I actually found this right after I made my post.
Idk if im being gaslit for sure. As someone who deals with adhd, cptsd, anxiety, I know my memory isnt the best and I forget things, but I question if I really forget or misunderstand so many things. I would just like to add some protection, just to be safe
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Maybe something mundane might help you? Like taking notes or recordings on your phone? I’m sorry, I wish I knew of something that could help.
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Thank you, I was hoping someone could help with how to do it all in one. Im still learning how to navigate this site, and sometimes i tend to get overwhelmed by all the information, so its easier to ask the community for suggestions. I appreciate your help!
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While taking apart other spells and combining them is valid, if you are not clear on your intent or feel a bit awkward, then doing separate spells that are shorter and clearer would be my approach. I have two ongoing spells that I stoke frequently but I don’t combine them even though they are similar. My intent for each is slightly different and combining them would be confusing to me.
Having said that, some of your requirements are related. Gaslighting at its base is lying… as is deceit so I could see those three or four combining well. Trusting your intuition deserves your full attention. Improving your memory… wait… I forgot what I was going to say… 
Seriously, I think you have a good case for three different spells that you can set intent and treat differently.
The list of spells given should have all those. I would craft them for my circumstances until I felt I could believe them and then use them regularly.
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Glad I could help! With it being your first spell l, it may get complicated doing it all in one. But if you trust in yourself, have strong intent and be clear and exact in what you need I think you should be able to do it. Trusting your intuition is something that will come in time and with practice.
@dan3 does have some good points and advice. Keep in mind I’ve been practicing a few decades and I have a tendency to forget what it was like being new.
Make your spell simple. They don’t need to be huge or complicated to work.
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