This is on baneful Magick right? I’ve not used it to harm anyone. I used it once to detach myself from a harmful situation, to break the emotional hold it was having over me. It’s the one and only time I used baneful and blood Magick, but I needed something very strong to remove my attachment to the organisation, so I sort of did the spell on me. It broke the link. I don’t personally think hexing or the such works for me, as I think it prolongs the pain. I also feel it’s never good to do spells when your heart is in a bad place as it can effect focus. I know It can be hard to let go of pain, and negative feelings, but I found an old hoodoo spell from a witch who’s work I read about, that used baneful Magick to break yourself away from something and protect yourself emotionaly. I waited until I was in a calm state so didn’t do the spell till about a year after the event. Maybe it wasn’t 100% baneful I don’t know. But I do feel there’s a place for dark/light, Ying/Yang in the world. It’s up to us how we use those forces. Hope that makes sense 