We’ve made it! December is here, and we are that much closer to ringing the bells of the New Year. This year has been one thing right after another; everything has culminated to this moment, whether we like it or not, and it’s almost time to reflect back on the last 12 months. Before we do that, though, we have one more month to make it through.
December is generally a month of joy and frivolity. Christmas music plays all month long, and the weather changes as we hit the peak of winter (or summer!) and see the return of the sun (or bid the sun farewell) on the Solstice. This period of light in the darkness is one I have personally struggled with. Winter is hard for me - though I find solace in the darkness, it is also a time of isolation as my family life has shifted over the years. I hope that this month I can take some time to find that light and hold Brighid’s fire in my heart.
So, without further rambling on my part, keep reading to see what December has in store for us as a collective!
If you need a refresher for our collective reading, you can find that here → Peering into 2023 Collective Tarot Reading. If you are new here, this is a periodic divinatory reading I do to shine a light on the collective reading that I do at the beginning of the year. The cards pulled here for the next month are a reflection and check-in with the relevant card from the yearly reading.
Was November Relevant?
Let’s take a minute to look at November’s collective reading card and update, just to see what was relevant. Then we can move on to this month’s check-in and the cards I will pull.
November 2023: Five of Swords
The look on this person’s face is one of smugness. Your pride is showing and conflicts will be abundant again. This month, though, these conflicts are external. Things may turn into a competition and you will feel the need to win no matter what, even at the cost of your relationships with the people you care about. Don’t let your pride get in the way! There is a vast difference between not arguing for the sake of keeping peace and arguing just so you can get the last word. Find a middle ground and don’t argue just to argue.
Read more: Five of Swords – Spells8
The three cards I pulled as the update for November were Page of Cups (left), King of Pentacles (right), and Queen of Wands.
This reading called us to check our pride and call on our inner courage and passion. We were asked to look inward at ourselves in reflection. We were also tasked with peering outward and reaching out to those we may be able to help. If we were successful in embodying the courage we needed, our pride would be spared (mostly) and we would be better equipped to lead those who would follow us.
So… I am not going to lie to you… I had such a struggle with my personal pride this month. My pride was wounded, but my inner child was also provoked on more than one occasion. I struggled this month to see the difference between pride for my adult self versus protection and healing for my inner child. Though my personal pride got in the way a bit, I feel like I did personally embody the energy of the Queen of Wands.
I won’t go into too much detail because that is not the point of this post, but just know that if you also struggled in November, you did not struggle alone!
If you want to refresh your memory of the November reading, click here!
This month, we are looking at the month of December!
As a reminder, the collective reading for the month of December has us looking at Seven of Swords Reversed.
December 2023: Seven of Swords Reversed
We are ending the year on a low-ish note, it seems. So much will happen over 2023 that we will either feel like an imposter at the end or we will be lying to ourselves about something we experienced. This card also suggests that we may be hiding our true thoughts and feelings from ourselves or those we care about. We should not bypass our emotions for the sake of keeping the peace, either. It is very important to be honest with ourselves and those we care about. Otherwise, we may end up internalizing our secrets and being even more miserable.
Read more: Seven of Swords - Spells8
With this card in mind, I took three deep breaths and pulled three more cards to give us some more guidance on where December is headed. This month, I used Somnia Tarot.
Three tarot cards lay on a tan carpet background. From left to right, the cards are as follows: Nine of Swords Reversed, Queen of Swords, and Eight of Swords.
Before I get into the reading itself, I should have known that using my Somnia Tarot would 100% wreck my reading and call us all out… this deck is good at that, and I can already tell without getting into the full interpretation that I will not like it. I mean, I never like it when I pull all sword cards!
What has changed? - Nine of Swords Reversed
Rather than focusing on the Seven of Swords Reversed from the original reading, the Nine of Swords Reversed points not toward secrets but toward release. The Seven of Swords Reversed called into question our honesty, implying that we would be keeping secrets from those we care about. Secrets are not necessarily a bad thing, but when they are kept to the detriment of others, our ethics are then called into question.
Instead, the Nine of Swords Reversed flips that around and asks us to let go of whatever worry we were holding on to. Our secrets don’t need to be kept quiet. Though we may feel very conflicted about sharing our inner world, we need to remember that those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind. The people who care about us are there to help us through the difficult moments. Let go of the anxiety and fear you may be holding on to in favor of offloading your burdens to those you trust (with their permission, of course!)
What has stayed the same? Queen of Swords
It is just as clear now as it has been all year - clear communication is important. Setting boundaries is important. That does not change this month, and the Queen of Swords brings her energy to the month of December to guide you forward. See how she holds the sword steady and strong? She sits on her throne with no hesitation. She is sure of herself, trusting in her instincts and her ability to move forward without bias. Her outstretched hand holds what looks like a blindfold, yet she is facing the direction of the past. Remove your blindfold and take your own throne with strength. You are the ruler of your life - act like it.
What should we keep in mind? Eight of Swords
Decision fatigue is a real thing. This month, you may be faced with many different obstacles and choices to be made. Remember that everything is in your mind right now. Everything around you is a product of your own thoughts. The negativity you have allowed to take up space in your mind can make you feel trapped. It is your responsibility to remove these obstacles. There is no room for this negativity, and if you feel hindered by these thoughts and your current mindset, yet you make no movement to solve it, you relinquish the right to play the victim.
Just as a reminder…
The Card of the Year: The Seven of Rods
- conflict, protecting what you’ve worked for, passionate disagreements
Goals of 2023: Justice Reversed
- lack of balance, unfair treatment, honesty with others
Obstacles of 2023: The Sun
- keeping the peace, complacency, people pleasing, avoiding confrontation
Putting it together…
As I said at the start, I hate that the reading has been all swords. Literally… the card I pulled for this month a full year ago was a sword card. Now, I end the year the same way – three more sword cards! The entire reading makes sense to me, though. We were originally warned against keeping secrets from those we care about. Carrying secrets is a heavy burden, one that we have to remember exactly or we can trip ourselves up. Now, a whole year later, secrets are still playing a role this month. However, it is the Nine of Swords Reversed that reminds us that secrets are not always a good thing. These secrets can be the death of us, causing us to feel overwhelmed and burdened with something much heavier than we can bear on our own. When we have trusted friends and a good support system, there should be no need to carry the weight of our world on our own.
The last two cards of my check-in play together in their imagery. The Queen of Swords has removed a blindfold from someone we cannot see. The Eight of Swords sees a blindfolded woman facing away from us surrounded by swords. The cards tell a story - the Queen sits on her throne behind the blindfolded woman, beckoning her to remove her blindfold and stand in her strength. This is what we need to remember this month. When you feel weak and unable to move forward, embody the Queen of Swords. When you feel like playing the victim, or when you find yourself surrounded by negative thinking, remember the Eight of Swords.
We can control most of what happens in our lives. Yes, there will always be things out of control, circumstances we were born into or forced into, but one thing we can always control is our thoughts. Though they may begin with a negative mindset, our thoughts can be changed. One facet of spirituality is this: our thoughts create our reality, and even if we don’t follow the Law of Attraction, a negative mindset has an unwanted effect on our self-esteem, our confidence, and even our practices as pagans and witches.
Watch your mindset. Watch your thoughts. Watch your secrets.
What do you think?
Do you have any insight to share from the collective reading? And how do you think December is going to go? The next post in this series will be a look back at the entire year right before I do the reading for 2024 - are you excited?! I can’t believe it’s already been an entire year!
If you want to do your own reading for the month, you can find the current infographic below. I also have a blog post that goes into more detail about each card in the layout. You can find that post by clicking here .
I also have a video that details how I use this spread!
→ Tarot for the New Month || A Simple Four Card Tarot Spread! [CC] - YouTube