Hello @Wolf_Witch
I have hidden being a witch most of my life. The one exception was Halloween when I was always a witch!
Even today, I avoid using the term: witch! I describe some of the things I do as, ‘Distant Healing’, ‘Prayer List’, Astrology, etc. I have created a Magick Garden but I just say “yard.” One of my neighbors suggested I call the newspaper and have them do a story with pictures, but I would never do that.
My mother was one of the worst Christians I ever met, she lied and stole money from the church, and the woman who cleaned the church got blamed and fired. I really think my mother was mentally ill. My experiences with Christianity were not always good, so I quit going when I was old enough to make my own decisions. On the other hand, I know there are many good-hearted Christians, unlike my mother!
I have always, been quiet and shy, so I mostly don’t tell anyone much about myself. No one has ever asked me if I’m a witch!
I am the Matriarch of my family, my mother and father and their parents have all passed. I did keep it hidden because my dad thought it was so evil. I am strong-willed and determined to follow my path, and I learned to keep things hidden from my dad. Looking back I do wish I could have shared more with my family…
If it were me, I would approach it softly, maybe dancing around the topic because the word Witch comes with some interesting myths that can scare people. However, I don’t feel this is the right approach for you.
If you are determined to tell them, then you must also be prepared for the fallout! You may quickly become the Black Sheep of the family! Are you prepared for this?
I wish I had a better answer for you, Bonnie. And I hope you find the answer that you’re looking for.
With Love and Magick