The days have slipped away from me- itās already June! I was a bit preoccupied with a dreaded dentist appointment yesterday, but my partner reminded me this morning that it is a very important month .
From across the world, wishing you all a very happy and blessed Pride Month!
For those who do not know, the month of June is celebrated in some places as Pride Month- a time to honor the LGBT+ community.
Depending on where you are in the world, expect to see various businesses and profiles donning rainbow colors, temporary logos, and pride-related decorations. Just go to Google, type in āpride monthā and see what happens!
Just like with magick- it is so important that everyone is free and safe to practice and be comfortable with who they are!
To all of the wonderful witches and folks in the Infinite Roots Coven- whether you are set in your sexuality, are still exploring your identity, or are an ally/a loved one of a member of the LGBT+ community- cheers to you!
Im hoping that the Pride festival is on this year in my city they only started here in 2018 if you can believe that! I took my daughter to the two we have had and we had such an amazing time but it was cancelled last year because of the pandemic Happy Pride Month
Iām taking pride for this!!! Happy pride month!! Thereās a parade in NYC and itās so crazy fun!!! I met so many great souls and theyāre all beautiful!!! I do hope itās on for this year here too @Liisa it would be a shame to miss!!
Happy Pride Month!
I was going to say this on Facebook, but I think it would start an argument with some of my family members, so Iāll say it hereāIām ace or asexual.
Itās taken almost 32-years-old (my birthday is August 26) to figure this out.
Two years ago, I told my parents and sisters that I think Iām ace, but they donāt/wonāt believe me. They just say that I just havenāt āmet āthe right person yetā or that Iām still healing from a break up.
I know that being ace is completely normal, but sometimes Iāll read comments about aceās on Facebook or Twitter (which I really, really need to delete) saying, āAre you even human?ā āYou just canāt find a partner.ā
No matter where Iāve been in my life or what my state of mind is, sex is just something that Iāve always had little to no interest in.
I canāt say why I feel this way for sure.
Itās just the way I am.
@Kasandra Congrats for figuring out your asexuality and owning it so beautifully! We all have the right for defining ourselves, and others questioning that definition are making complete fools out of themselves thinking they know us better than we do. The arrogance, right? If they canāt accept you as you are, theyāre not worth your time, and theyāre throwing out a chance to know the wonderful person you are because of their own insecurities. Ace people are beautiful and valid, and we totally exist. I know, I am one and Iām dating another
Congrats for coming out as Ace. Itās a difficult thing to do because others just donāt understand that youāre just not that interested. I always told my Mom Iād rather marry my cat than a man. LOL.
I honestly donāt know what my sexuality is now? Iāve been with both men and women in my life so I suppose at one point I was bisexual and my longest relationship was with a man, but for the last 10 years I just havenāt wanted to do anything with anyone regardless of gender? I donāt know if itās an emotional block or if Iām just not that into anyone anymore? I still fancy people and itās an even mix of male and female but it never goes further than a crush I did recently fund out you can marry yourself though (not legally as such) so maybe Iām the one?
Lol @Liisa that last sentence literally made me stifle an LOL. Get it, girl! Get YOU, girl. youāre awesome.
A huge to each of you who have recognized/come to terms/ācome outā about your sexuality. Itās so strange that anyone should need to do that, isnāt it? Itās sexuality! Why would anyone need to explain that?! Anyway, youāre all wonderful, kind, brave and glorious souls. Happy Pride, babies!
Hereās to hoping that you and your daughter will be able to make your local pride festival this year, @Liisa! Learning about yourself is a life-long journey, and itās absolutely okay if it takes time to discover what identity (or lack of an identity/ label) you feel most comfortable with. And life is full of changes and new discoveries- itās all part of the adventure!
And yes! Now that you mention it, Iāve seen a big rise in people who are, for various reasons, marrying themselves!
And same to you, @Christina4- Iāve heard that NYC Pride is a huge festival and lots of fun! Hope you can make it if they are able to have it this year
Congrats to you, @Kasandra! You know yourself better than anyone else- so listen to your heart and seek out places and people that support you being yourself You have every right to be proud of the wonderful person you are!
Beautifully said, @CelestiaMoon! Congrats to you and your partner- happy pride to both of you!
Hahaha hopefully your mother got the point! Youāre amazing @Amethyst, and you are a strong and successful person just as you are- thereās no need to marry if thatās not the path for you!
Happy first day of Pride Month 2022 to the Infinite Roots coven!
Last week, I learned that one of my relatives, who I rarely see or talk to, made a comment that Iām a scary person for having little to no interest in any sexual activity. Iām ace, by the way, for those who are new to the forum.
Ugh. Iām not even going to bother. If it were the other way, Iād probably get comments like, āSheās such a sl*t!ā
But anyway, with all of the anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric and bills that have been passed this year, please be safe! And have a fabulous month!
@Kasandra I really canāt fathom that someone thought you were scary for being ace- some people just jump right to terror and fear whenever they encounter something they arenāt familiar with . Sorry you had to deal with that, Kasandra
And cheers to that- wishing everyone a safe and fun pride month!
I am bisexual and get told on a regular basis āitās just a phaseā or āyou canāt be because you married a manā. I used to argue with them but now I just shrug and walk away. I know who I am so thatās all that matters, just so happens I feel in love with a man but I would love him if he was a woman/trans/gender fluid - itās his soul I love.
@Kasandra, I agree with Bry that I donāt see why people would think you are scary just because you are ace. It just shows their ignorance.
@Amethyst If my husband and I ever divorce, Iām not getting married again, lol, and he says he isnāt either. We werenāt planning to in the first place but his super religious mother wanted us to then she passed away unexpectedly. So as an honor to her memory we got married. But it is really just a piece of paper to us. We knew we were going to be together and were āspiritually bondedā I guess you can say before that.