Oh goodness, @nicol1 
that sounds like a scary experience! I can imagine how out of sorts you probably feel, especially as you try to move your things in, get settled, and make a life with your boyfriend.
Has your boyfriend ever had experiences like youâve mentioned?
Itâs possible that this spirit or entity doesnât want you there because youâre a new person. Without knowing too much about the house or your boyfriend, itâs hard to say. Maybe your boyfriend or the house has a spirit attachment that is being disturbed by your moving in.
I think this is a good step in the right direction, but not quite the direction you should be going. Instead, you should perform a banishing. Cleansing and banishing are two different things. They both have similar goals, but very different targets. Usually cleansing is used for residual energy and banishing is used for spirits and entities that donât belong.
Iâll list a few of our resources here for banishing spells. I think you should perform a banishing, then a cleansing, and then do some protection spells on the home, yourself, your boyfriend, and his daughter.
Some of these spells are for banishing people but they can easily be re-worked to banish spirits you donât want hanging around.
https://forum.spells8.com/t/banishing-spells/27830
Then there are also a few videos on YouTube from sources I trust that have to do with banishing.
â How To Cleanse Negative Energy From An Antique - YouTube
â Banishing Oil | How to Make a Banishment Spell - YouTube
â Crafting a Banishing Incense Blend - YouTube
Give some of these a try and let us know how it goes!
It may also be helpful to do some divination and see if you can figure out who or what is causing the problems.