The 12 Nights of Yule ~ Night Four: Day of Family & The All-Father

THE FOURTH NIGHT OF YULE:

Day of Family & The All-Father

Day of Family

The long night has ended and the light is returning - who better to share the joy with than those we love most? The solstice and the immediate moment after are good times for personal reflection, and now we are emerging from solitude. The first people we share light with are those closest to our hearts: family. This may be blood relatives, our dearest friends, spirit guides, ancestors, or whoever family is to you.

Consider spending time with your innermost circle today. You might spend time by the hearth, make and enjoy a meal together, or brave the cold for some winter fun. Other ideas include family and home blessing spells, sending love to distant family from afar, or making small gifts (such as a spell jars or protective charms) to give to loved ones.

Honoring Fathers & The Divine Masculine

To mirror Mother’s Night on the first day of Yule, some practices include a night to honor the Divine Masculine energy. This is a time to acknowledge the beloved masculine figures and forces in our lives. Consider doing something nice for a father, brother, relative, teacher, or friend who means a lot to you.

You might also honor any gods you work with, masculine spirits, or consider embracing the Divine Masculine energy that exists in every living being.

All-Father Odin

The God Odin is deeply intertwined with traditional Yule celebrations. In parts of Europe, some refer to Odin as the Father of Yule.

During Yule, all the gods are honored, especially Odin – who is also referred to as Jólfaðr (Yule Father). ~Sons of Vikings

While traditions vary in how they portray the annual Wild Hunt, Odin is one popular candidate to lead the pack.

Odin is a primary figure associated with Yule in later Norse and Germanic folklore. During midwinter, Odin often rode at the head of the Wild Hunt, a ghostly procession of the dead and otherworldly beings who swept across the winter skies. In later Scandinavian traditions, children left hay, straw, or carrots in their boots as offerings for Sleipnir, Odin’s eight-legged horse. (and, yes, this is one reason Santa has eight reindeer.) He was also the Wanderer, when he moved through the world cloaked and unrecognizable, testing hospitality and rewarding those who practiced it. ~ The Pagan Grimoire

From the flying reindeer to the wise old man wielding magic, there are enough similarities that some believe that Odin may have inspired modern portrayals of Santa Claus.

Most 12 Days of Yule calendars that focus on deities reserve at least one day/night to honor Odin. Consider reading His mythology, making offerings, or honoring Him in other ways tonight.

Celebration Spells & Ideas

Want to celebrate? Here are a few spells and other ways to honor the energies of the day.


Runes for Family: Protection, Prosperity & More


Spell Bag for Family Unity


How to Honor Odin the All-Father


How to Embrace Your Divine Masculine Energy


The God’s Temple: Divine Masculine Myths & Symbols

Have a wonderful winter solstice and a blessed Yuletide! :heart:


TWELVE NIGHTS OF YULE COUNTDOWN:

0. Intro and History of the Twelve Nights
1. Mother’s Night and The Longest Night (Dec 20)
2. The Winter Solstice and The Wild Hunt (Dec 21)
3. Day of Light & Reflections, Sacred to Ancestors (Dec 22)
4. Day of Family, Sacred to All-Father Odin (Dec 23)
5. Day of Gifts & Miracles, Jolabokaflod, Night of Animals Talking (Dec 24)
6. Day of Hearth & Home, Sol Invictus, Rauhnächte Begins, Sacred to Frigg (Dec 25)
7. Day of Cleansing (Dec 26)
8. Day of Snow, Sacred to Deities of Winter, Skadi & Ullr (Dec 27)
9. Day of Preparation (Dec 28)
10. Day of Community (Dec 29)
11. Day of Mischief, Sacred to Tricksters (Dec 30)
12. Oath Night, Twelfth Night, Day of Wassailing, Gregorian New Year’s Eve (Dec 31)

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I had a sense of guilt, this morning. Last Mother’s Day, I wasn’t allowed to speak to my mother over the telephone: the workers at the nursing home refused to connect me with her. This was the third holiday that something similar happened. She wrote me that she didn’t want to answer the phone anymore, so I respected her wishes and stopped calling her. I’d worked hard to get each phone call through to her, and I couldn’t handle the drama anymore.

Yet the sense of guilt wasn’t mine. I have no proof, but I think I may have been sensing someone else’s feelings. There will be no phone call to Indiana in the next few days. No one has my phone number anymore; but even when they did, no one used it. No one wrote me for several years. Cousins had my email and never bothered to use it. I have no reason to feel guilty. May Odin see and understand my side, too.

I miss them, but I know they couldn’t care less. No loss, there.

When I write online about my best friend, I call her simply my driver. She approved of the denomination to keep her privacy. We spend a lot of our time together, including holidays when I’m healthy enough to go out. She and her grandson are my chosen family. They mean more to me than blood. May Odin bless them.

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I remember the difficulties you faced back at Mother’s Day and I think it’s very understandable to feel down about it - after all, you tried your best to do a good thing. I’m sorry it didn’t work out.

I know some paths may say otherwise, but I don’t personally believe we get to choose our blood relatives. It’s a roll of the dice with often some difficult results. What we can choose is who we call family, and it sounds like you have found some wonderful bonds with people close to you! You’re also a beloved part of the coven community here. I really think this night of Yule is about treasuring those dear bonds with our family, whoever and wherever they may be :heart:

May Odin bless you all! :blush:

I hope you had a lovely Fourth Night, Georgia :two_hearts: :candle:

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Thank You. I needed to hear this.

Blessings to you, dear.

I do consider this coven Family, or I wouldn’t entrust my feelings here.

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:people_hugging: :heart:

We’re very blessed to have you in the space! :hearts:

Sending big hugs and Yule blessings your way :blush:

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Yule 2025 has come to an end - I hope you had a blessed sabbat! Please visit the sabbats tag for other pagan holiday celebrations and come back in December to join us for Yule 2026 celebrations. Blessed be!