I’m so sorry to hear you both had such a tough day, @janelle and @Susurrus!
It’s possible that you may be suffering under the weight of negative energy. @SilverBear shared a great post about Signs of Negative Energy and offered some great advice about how to go about cleansing yourself from it 
Whether it’s negative energy or just a bad day, I hope you both are getting some good rest tonight and wake up refreshed and happy! 
I am sending warm thoughts that today will be a better and more fortunate day for you both 