Hello, I gave a question that I am hoping y’all can help me with. I’m going to give details of the situation as I feel they are important to the level of stress my husband is undergoing but you can scroll past for my request.
TRIGGER WARNING: Child Abuse/molestation
A person my husband was friends with as a teenager is now on trial for some really nasty charges of child molestation and keeps bringing my husband’s name into it. He was charged about 20 years ago with molestation of a minor and at that time he said he didn’t do it. In 2019, two brothers that went to the same church as my husband and this guy and hanged out with them have now come forward with accusations of molestation over a course of several years. After talking to my husband about this, I have learned that he is also a victim but doesn’t want to press charges. He for the longest time just thought it was an experimentation phase. But now realizes this guy groomed him.
Once my husband started dating me, they drifted apart of the years and haven’t really talked in about 10 years. When we learned of these new charges in 2019, he completely cut ties and told him not to contact us as we wanted nothing to do with him.
Fast forward to this week and the actual trial. My husband is being contacted by both sides (DA and defense) and it’s really stressing him out. His name is being thrown around about a lot of things he has no knowledge of or doesn’t remember as the events occurred 25+ years ago. We have also learned that while on probation during the first time, he lied to his probation officer and put things on my husband without his knowledge.
My husband is under a lot of stress related to personal matters that are being put on him by an evil person. I’ve tried doing an anti-anxiety spell jar for him but it’s not really working. What can I do to protect him? I obviously don’t want to harm anyone but also don’t like people messing with those I love!