Good Morning @kellz! Sorry for the late morning reply! I’m Siofra_Strega, a moderator in the forum! I’m from Cape Cod. I am going to try to give some information on a few things that you have mentioned the best I can right now
First, we are very happy that you are here! Everyone here is very helpful, friendly, & supportive of your own unique journey
This is a common practice within the forum & many of us are also working on the same! There is a course & a post in the forum to kind of get you started & then go from there…
We have oodles of guided meditations within the site & the forum:
You will find throughout different posts that others have posted links to many meditations they have used & found very helpful. There is also an app called Insight Timer that has 100’s of 1,000’s of meditations for FREE… ones for moons, chakras, grounding, releasing, energy work, crystal connections… just tons… you’re sure to find one (most likely more than that) to practice.
We also have a section on candle magic
Also just a reminder to always practice candle safety & even if you are using jar candles.
It sounds as though you have some abilities either as an Empath or at the very least a ‘clair’ or 2… I am a highly sensitive empath with several gifts, working on them is something that I am also in the process of as my intuition becomes more clear for myself. As far as visions, I usually have them as dreams & deja veux types of scenarios. I’m not entirely sure that there is necessarily a way to “control” when or if you have have them. However there are measures you can take for shielding your energy or protecting it.
- Are you an empath?
- Empath Shielding Anyone?
- How to Protect Your Energy - Empath Connection
- What is an Empath? (+12 Signs & How to Stay Balanced) - LonerWolf
- Different Types of Clairs
Also, @Amaris_Bane has some great shielding & protection techniques that she uses also. She is wonderful & a wealth of knowledge within the forum.
My daughter is also an Empath & I’m pretty sure that she doesn’t know or realize it. She just knows that she is: “Alot like my mother” as she describes it. My son’s… I think in some ways they are, but don’t acknowledge it or work with the energies as I do… they have their own belief systems.
You would also be interested in this part of the site:
Honestly there is so much more to learn & to grow within your practice… I’m sure others will be along with recommendations & insights. I hope you have a great weekend & I look forward to speaking with you more!